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		<title>013 The Invisible Touch &#8211; The Fallacy of Leadership</title>
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<h2>Fallacies of Marketing</h2>
<p>I&#039;ve always been called a leader. From when I was very young on the playground, I was organizing people to get things done.</p>
<p>Student Council in Junior High, in Senior High, in College: yep, I was the president.</p>
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<h2>Fallacies of Marketing</h2>
<p>I&#039;ve always been called a leader. From when I was very young on the playground, I was organizing people to get things done.</p>
<p>Student Council in Junior High, in Senior High, in College: yep, I was the president.</p>
<p>In theater: I directed my first production in 7th grade. And even today, people joke that I&#039;m the &#034;mayor&#034; in just about any setting I find myself.</p>
<p>So this section of Harry Beckwith&#039;s book, <strong>The Invisible Touch</strong>, was hard for me to approach. </p>
<h2>&#034;People Don&#039;t Lead. Purposes Do.&#034;</h2>
<p>Mr. Beckwith goes to great lengths to say that people really don&#039;t like to be &#034;managed&#034; and I agree with that. Just as you can&#039;t herd cats, most people really won&#039;t allow themselves to be managed (frankly, I bristle at the term and find my spine running cold with the idea that someone would &#034;manage&#034; (control) me).</p>
<p>So what does he suggest?</p>
<p>Create businesses with well-defined goals and then let everyone work toward them. And I present to consulting clients that compensation must be based around the goals of the company and goals of the individual so that what is most important is rewarded.</p>
<p>As an entrepreneur, I know what it is to set goals and be the cheerleader to help get those around me over the goal line. When THEY are successful, I am successful and so is my company.</p>
<h2>Set An Atmosphere, And Then Get Out Of The Way</h2>
<p>I&#039;ve always felt that I can set the atmosphere within which we all work.<br />
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My close friend, Cheryl, pointed out to me one time that the success of a good theater production started from the top down. I wasn&#039;t sure I agreed until I saw how another director was treating (and then being treated back by) his cast. </p>
<p>Open, caring, clear goals and communication.</p>
<p>So maybe I DON&#039;T disagree with Mr. Beckwith: maybe it&#039;s just our definitions of Leadership aren&#039;t exactly the same. And then THROUGH me the &#034;purpose&#034; is manifested and we achieve our goals. </p>
<p>Now THAT makes sense!</p>
<p>And what REALLY makes sense is that the overall purpose for which we&#039;re working really drives everything. So maybe I&#039;ve just been good at identifying those goals which others can choose to follow. </p>
<p>So whether it&#039;s a student council president, a theater director, someone running a company, or the President of the United States, it&#039;s LESS about Leadership of the individual and MORE about setting clear goals for getting out main purpose accomplished. </p>
<p>Amen.</p>
<p>Best,<br />
<img src="http://ultimateworkathomedads.com/gold/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/charliesignvlettersm1.gif" alt="Charlie" title="Charlie" width="150" height="47" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-173" /><br />
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