Ultimate Dads Success Ezine 015

Previous topics include:

- I tell people that I’m “on a deadline” so that I won’t be asked to waste time that I should be working toward my goals.

- I gave you a tip that I got from Dan Kennedy years ago: Only accept SCHEDULED telephone calls from clients.

- I presented something that I’m “famous” for (and the envy of many of my friends stuck in a “job”): my DPS Time – Dreaming, Planning, Scheming.

- I told you about SKYPE.

- I told you to stay away from TV, radio, newspapers, etc until late in your day – keep your engine running well with positive, uplifting, spiritual or meaningful messages instead.

- I suggested that you watch other industries, not just your own.

- I said that you should join a local business group to stay in touch with others.

- You also read about Setting Up A Blog.

- And I urged you to use video in a blog.

- You were urged to improve your writing online – it’s easy when you learn how!

– I told you that people ask me if they should put their videos on YouTube and other video-sharing sites and I said Yes… and No!

- We discussed Creating A Marketing Campaign.

Today let’s look at keeping your family alive and front + center as you work at home.

Some times our kids feel we haven’t focused enough attention on them. Sometimes that leads to kids acting out, and as much as we might WANT to give a great deal more attention, we also know how important it is for us to stay focused on business to help pay the bills that families incur.

The day I’m writing this, our older daughter (Stacie) is celebrating her birthday up in Boston, MA USA. We miss her greatly but know that for her to live HER life, she wants to be in that great city where both she and I went to college.

Liz, our younger daughter, is planning her wedding, so when I did the photography for a wedding over the weekend, I had my eyes opened in a new light: looking for ideas for HER wedding.

Liz, in particular, when she was much younger wondered why I couldn’t stay to play with her all day. Explain as I might, it didn’t work until she was out on her own and she knew what it was to have responsibilities.

But some days I long for those simpler days.

Sometime parents have problems coping and kids work to get attention in various ways.

One day I came across some interesting information called Honest Parenting, which is the difference between a "program" and a REAL parenting style that builds a RELATIONSHIP and causes LASTING improvement in your child or teen! This Information is for ALL Parents and Caretakers of Children!

If you need a bit more help having “smooth sailing” with your children, perhaps you should look at this information. Daniel Craven, who created this website and the downloadable information, provides much helpful information. I do get paid a small commission if you decide to purchase and I’m sure if this information is right for you, you will be so grateful to have found it.

To learn more about honest parenting, Click Here!

What do you find toughest about working on your own? Tell us what we can do to help.
Please write us at: Surviving On Your Own

One of the most important books I’ve ever read was E-Myth Revisited. And listening to the CDs were even MORE powerful for me. I’ve listed both of them here for you because IF you haven’t read it, you should. And listening to the CD might be the easiest way to learn from all of this. Monumental in scope and importance.

What Men Want in a Relationship
by Coach Rinatta Paries

Get the full article here.

This is good information for both men AND women. Share it with a loved one as this series continues!
Rinatta Paries writes that she discovered a stark contrast between what each sex thinks the opposite sex wants from them, and what the opposite sex really does want.
What women think men want from them causes women to have resentment and anger toward men, and feel hopeless about ever developing a wonderful, warm, romantic partnership. What men think women want from them causes them much of the same feelings and frustration.
The sad part is that it does not have to be this way, if only we would realize that both men and women are human beings first and pretty much want the same thing. But, you don't have to take my word for this.
She asked a number of men and women who are actively involved in personal growth and development what they want from a partner in order to build a great relationship. You will find their answers unexpected. Discover what men said they want from women as contrasted with what women think men want. You'll also find tips for women to give men what they want, attract a great man, and create a wonderful relationship.
4. Men want growth, personal responsibility, and ownership.
Men want a partner who can laugh at herself and who has courage and strength. They want a woman who can see her part in relationship dynamics and own it. She has to be emotionally stable. Men want a woman who is developing herself personally, and who takes responsibility for her emotional experience.
Women think men only want to have a good time. Women think men have no interest in developing and growing a relationship or developing and growing themselves. Women think men want women who are super models, and that they never consider whether a
woman is emotionally mature, kind, supportive, or loving.
**A Tip for Women**
Men want women who are emotionally mature. Maturity does not mean lack of emotions. It does mean the ability to handle emotions responsibly. To attract a great man and build a long-term relationship, learn to take responsibility for your emotional experience and expression.

Did you just hear something from a woman and thought it needed translation? Did you recently say something that was totally unintelligible by your spouse? Share How Men And Women Speak Differently – Click Here To Email Your Thoughts!

"Our children are not going to be just 'our children' – they are going to be other people's husbands and wives and the parents of our grandchildren." Dr. Mary Calderone

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Charlie Seymour Jr is an Ultimate Work At Home Dad, an entrepreneur, and a marketer with a heart for families, children, the arts, and how they tie together. He created
UltimateWorkAtHomeDad.com, RaisingGreatFamilies.com, ILearnedItAllFromMyKids.com, and FathersAndTheDaughtersTheyLove.com. 

Charlie has studied with some of the best direct response marketers on the planet – one on one, in the classroom, at seminars, and with work at home courses. He is no stranger to thinking big. He is an entrepreneur with a variety of interests and abilities, mostly focused on families and the Arts. He honed his skills as a business marketer and entrepreneur after earning his MBA in Marketing and Management from The Wharton School in 1975 and his BA in Economics and Music from Tufts University in 1973. He sold $247,368,657.97 as a salesman and marketed more than $1 billion as the Vice President of Marketing for Jackson-Cross Company.

Charlie is featured in the new book, Dream Inc, about 32 Philadelphia-area entrepreneurs and their million dollar secrets to success, and The Ultimate Success Secret by Dan Kennedy and Michael M. Capuzzi. Artistically his life has also been rich by directing musical theater when not working.

He is a frequent speaker and author about Marketing, Work At Home, and Web 2.0. He runs his own photography and video business; is an online community builder; and has been an Ultimate Work At Home Dad for nearly 20 years. In addition to his major online projects, Charlie created http://LizSeymour.com to assist his daughter as she produced her first music CD. His personal portal site is http://CharlesSeymourJr.com.