Ultimate Dads Success Ezine 020

Previous topics include:

- I tell people that I’m “on a deadline” so that I won’t be asked to waste time that I should be working toward my goals.

- I gave you a tip that I got from Dan Kennedy years ago: Only accept SCHEDULED telephone calls from clients.

- I presented something that I’m “famous” for (and the envy of many of my friends stuck in a “job”): my DPS Time – Dreaming, Planning, Scheming.

- I told you about SKYPE.

- I told you to stay away from TV, radio, newspapers, etc until late in your day – keep your engine running well with positive, uplifting, spiritual or meaningful messages instead.

- I suggested that you watch other industries, not just your own.

- I said that you should join a local business group to stay in touch with others.

- You also read about Setting Up A Blog.

- And I urged you to use video in a blog.

- You were urged to improve your writing online – it’s easy when you learn how!

– I told you that people ask me if they should put their videos on YouTube and other video-sharing sites and I said Yes… and No!

– I showed you how to create a Marketing CAMPAIGN every time to market something.

- I presented information about the service you sell vs. a product.

- When things go wrong around your home was a topic.

- Then there was the topic of finding materials to blog about.

- We chatted about emailing from your phone.

- Here’s a fun one I’m just discovering: video from your cell phone.

While at Podcamp Boston 4 I used my new cell phone to capture some short videos and send them instantly to my profile on Facebook.

People following me saw the videos on my profile OR on the “home page” as information scrolled by.

The video is large enough to be seen on Facebook, but I’d never do a feature-length video from the phone.

And the format is MP4, so I can edit the videos later if I choose to.

Think about it. You just attended a great meeting, you grab one of your buddies, you interview him for 45 seconds, and you send it to your Facebook profile.

Since, easy, quick: and the video stays with your profile in your video section AND people following you now have your information brought to their attention AND they know that you have been busy.

VERY easy way to keep your name and face in front of your “herd.”

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You are even less likely to change their basic gender characteristics. So it is very important to educate yourself as to the basic gender differences which exist between men and women, and accept the fact that the differences are there, they are real, and they are not going away. In this way you can learn to use the differences as a way to enrich your relationship rather than to damage it.

Are Men and Women really different? Let's look at the evidence in a variety of areas of life. Note that these findings are generalizations and summaries that apply to most men or women, but not to all men or all women.

3. VALUES AND SELF ESTEEM AS ADULTS
MEN

• A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results, through success and accomplishment. Achieve goals and prove his competence and feel good about himself.
• To feel good about himself, men must achieve goals by themselves.
• For men, doing things by themselves is a symbol of efficiency, power and competence.
• In general, men are more interested in objects and things rather than people and feelings.
• Men rarely talk about their problems unless they are seeking "expert" advice; asking for help when you can do something yourself is a sign of weakness.
• Men are more aggressive than women; more combative and territorial.
• Men's self esteem is more career-related.
• Men feel devastated by failure and financial setbacks; they tend to obsess about money much more than women
• Men hate to ask for information because it shows they are a failure.

WOMEN:

• Women value love, communication, beauty, and relationships.
• A woman's sense of self is defined through their feelings and the quality of their relationships. They spend much time supporting, nurturing and helping each other. They experience fulfillment through sharing and relating.
• Personal expression, in clothes and feelings, is very important. Communication is important. Talking, sharing and relating is how a woman feels good about herself.
• For women, offering help is not a sign of weakness but a sign of strength; it is a sign of caring to give support.
• Women are very concerned about issues relating to physical attractiveness; changes in this area can be as difficult for women as changes in a man's financial status.
• When men are preoccupied with work or money, women interpret it as rejection.

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Charlie Seymour Jr is an Ultimate Work At Home Dad, an entrepreneur, and a marketer with a heart for families, children, the arts, and how they tie together. He created
UltimateWorkAtHomeDad.com, RaisingGreatFamilies.com, ILearnedItAllFromMyKids.com, and FathersAndTheDaughtersTheyLove.com. 

Charlie has studied with some of the best direct response marketers on the planet – one on one, in the classroom, at seminars, and with work at home courses. He is no stranger to thinking big. He is an entrepreneur with a variety of interests and abilities, mostly focused on families and the Arts. He honed his skills as a business marketer and entrepreneur after earning his MBA in Marketing and Management from The Wharton School in 1975 and his BA in Economics and Music from Tufts University in 1973. He sold $247,368,657.97 as a salesman and marketed more than $1 billion as the Vice President of Marketing for Jackson-Cross Company.

Charlie is featured in the new book, Dream Inc, about 32 Philadelphia-area entrepreneurs and their million dollar secrets to success, and The Ultimate Success Secret by Dan Kennedy and Michael M. Capuzzi. Artistically his life has also been rich by directing musical theater when not working.

He is a frequent speaker and author about Marketing, Work At Home, and Web 2.0. He runs his own photography and video business; is an online community builder; and has been an Ultimate Work At Home Dad for nearly 20 years. In addition to his major online projects, Charlie created http://LizSeymour.com to assist his daughter as she produced her first music CD. His personal portal site is http://CharlesSeymourJr.com.