Ultimate Dads Success Ezine 022

Previous topics include:

- I tell people that I’m “on a deadline” so that I won’t be asked to waste time that I should be working toward my goals.

- I gave you a tip that I got from Dan Kennedy years ago: Only accept SCHEDULED telephone calls from clients.

- I presented something that I’m “famous” for (and the envy of many of my friends stuck in a “job”): my DPS Time – Dreaming, Planning, Scheming.

- I told you about SKYPE.

- I told you to stay away from TV, radio, newspapers, etc until late in your day – keep your engine running well with positive, uplifting, spiritual or meaningful messages instead.

- I suggested that you watch other industries, not just your own.

- I said that you should join a local business group to stay in touch with others.

- You also read about Setting Up A Blog.

- And I urged you to use video in a blog.

- You were urged to improve your writing online – it’s easy when you learn how!

– I told you that people ask me if they should put their videos on YouTube and other video-sharing sites and I said Yes… and No!

– I showed you how to create a Marketing CAMPAIGN every time to market something.

- I presented information about the service you sell vs. a product.

- When things go wrong around your home was a topic.

- Then there was the topic of finding materials to blog about.

- We chatted about emailing from your phone.

- Then we chatted about the fun I discovered using video from my cell phone.

- MeetUp.com – I told you how it helps gather people from around the area to meetings (and how YOU can set up your own).

- Today, let’s think about creating a community service project that helps THEM and helps YOU.

My family has been involved with the same Community Theater outside of Philadelphia in Swarthmore, PA USA for 5 generations. I started on the stage when I was 6, directed record-setting (attendance) major musicals, and have been their photographer for 6 years.

Though I keep toying with directing again, I keep doing photography because I know how important the photographs are to me and my family – I have displays in my recreation room of shows my Dad was in, Mom was in, and shows my Dad directed.

In my office, I have photographs of shows I was in and shows I directed.

So THIS year as my blog is growing, I decided to create a video/public relations project to support the second show of the season: Into The Woods. I’ll do video plus stills and tell the behind-the-scenes story of actors participating in the production.

I’ll show it on MY website and link it to the theater’s website.

Oh, sure… it will be time consuming, but it will be fun, help them (and the arts REALLY need our support), and help me.

Think about it for yourself… what can YOU do to help the community that will also help you?

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You are even less likely to change their basic gender characteristics. So it is very important to educate yourself as to the basic gender differences which exist between men and women, and accept the fact that the differences are there, they are real, and they are not going away. In this way you can learn to use the differences as a way to enrich your relationship rather than to damage it.

Are Men and Women really different? Let's look at the evidence in a variety of areas of life. Note that these findings are generalizations and summaries that apply to most men or women, but not to all men or all women.

5. CONFLICTS WHICH ARISE DUE TO BASIC DIFFERENCES BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN
• The most frequent complain men have about women: Women are always trying to change them.
• The most frequent complaint women have about men: Men don't listen.
• Women want empathy, yet men usually offer solutions.
• When a woman tries to change or improve or correct or give advice to a man, men hear that they are being told that they aren't competent or don't know how to do something or that they can't do something on their own. (Charlie: Perhaps feeling his mother is scolding him)
• Men often feel responsible or to blame for women's problems.
• Men always assume women want advice and solutions to problems, that that is the best way to be helpful and to show love; women often just want someone to sincerely listen to them.
• Housework: men avoid it, try to get others to do it at all costs, feel demeaned by doing it. For women, cleanliness of house is a manifestation of warm, homey nest. Men and women have different thresholds for cleanliness and dirt.
• Men often try to change a woman's mood when she is upset by offering solutions to her problems, which she interprets as discounting and invalidating her feelings.

Women try to change men's behavior by offering unsolicited advice and criticism and becoming a home-improvement committee.

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Remember, when you have an argument with someone you love, you can always get in the last word by being the first to say, “I’m sorry.”
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Charlie Seymour Jr is an Ultimate Work At Home Dad, an entrepreneur, and a marketer with a heart for families, children, the arts, and how they tie together. He created
UltimateWorkAtHomeDad.com, RaisingGreatFamilies.com, ILearnedItAllFromMyKids.com, and FathersAndTheDaughtersTheyLove.com. 

Charlie has studied with some of the best direct response marketers on the planet – one on one, in the classroom, at seminars, and with work at home courses. He is no stranger to thinking big. He is an entrepreneur with a variety of interests and abilities, mostly focused on families and the Arts. He honed his skills as a business marketer and entrepreneur after earning his MBA in Marketing and Management from The Wharton School in 1975 and his BA in Economics and Music from Tufts University in 1973. He sold $247,368,657.97 as a salesman and marketed more than $1 billion as the Vice President of Marketing for Jackson-Cross Company.

Charlie is featured in the new book, Dream Inc, about 32 Philadelphia-area entrepreneurs and their million dollar secrets to success, and The Ultimate Success Secret by Dan Kennedy and Michael M. Capuzzi. Artistically his life has also been rich by directing musical theater when not working.

He is a frequent speaker and author about Marketing, Work At Home, and Web 2.0. He runs his own photography and video business; is an online community builder; and has been an Ultimate Work At Home Dad for nearly 20 years. In addition to his major online projects, Charlie created http://LizSeymour.com to assist his daughter as she produced her first music CD. His personal portal site is http://CharlesSeymourJr.com.